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Does Being a Parent Really Make You Happy? by Charles Black

Sep 03 2020

For quite some time I’ve wanted to introduce guest writers into the fold for fresh perspectives and knowledge. So today I am pleased and proud to bring you the first guest blogger on pulseonparenting.com. Ok, it’s my husband. Maybe I took the easy way out. But he wrote this post for his own blog and it fits right it with Pulse’s mission to bring parents information and answer questions in an easy-to-digest manner. And if you enjoy this post and find it helpful, as my husband states on his blog, feel free to share. I have had an on and…

Aug 27 2020

I wrote this post almost a year ago and never got around to publishing it. So much has happened in the intervening time with the rise of a global pandemic and I am SMDH at how the words below are ringing eerily true now. As an unusual school year is starting, and influenza season is just around the corner, vaccination (or the forgoing of it) is a prescient topic. So now is the time to publish this long-overdue post: My fourteen-year-old son passed on this meme (or is it a Gif? A Tik-Tok? I’ve no idea…) to me the other…

Aug 21 2020

This week the writing just didn’t happen. My fridge broke, among other things. So I’m gonna cheat a little. Here is a curation of articles related to COVID that address some of the most pertinent issues out there. I hope you find them as helpful as I have:

Aug 13 2020

Change isn’t easy. Especially when it is isn’t our choice, and even when it is. But the ability to adapt to change is a necessity it order to survive or simply to thrive. From an evolutionary standpoint, adaptation is the biological mechanism by which organisms adjust to new environments or to changes in their current environment. There are two ways that living beings adapt–biologically and behaviorally. In this post, I’m going to focus on behavioral adaptation. We are in the middle of a world-wide out-of-control experiment with a novel virus. Behavior is at the epicenter of the crisis. Current advice…

Aug 06 2020

The dad executes a ballet leap worthy of a severe hamstring injury and joyfully hook-shots boxes of pencils and packs of lined paper into a shopping cart. His son and daughter trudge behind, lower lips protruding enough that birds could comfortably perch upon them. Remember that commercial for back-to-school shopping? Remember feeling that relief (It’s ok to admit it, you are among friends here) when the calendar flipped to August? Remember normal back-to-school shopping? It’s hard to believe that was only a year ago. And now this anticipated ritual is changed in ways we could never have imagined. Not only…

Jul 30 2020

Mom, I miss my friends…when can I have a sleepover? Mom, I miss lacrosse. Then, the real stunner: Mom, I miss school. And the best responses I can give? I don’t know. I’m so sorry. And…I think I get that. Kids, all of you. I’m gonna tell you what I told my own kiddos a few weeks ago when COVID cases started to spike again. I’m sorry. I’m sorry grownups have completely screwed up life. No Prom. No spring sports. No graduations. I’m sorry you missed out on important face-to-face education and interactions with your friends. Your education and your…

Jul 24 2020

Two twenty-something men strut in to the grocery store, making a beeline for the deli. I can’t blame them, that fried chicken aroma is the Cinnabon of the savory world. And it was lunchtime. But it doesn’t matter how young and strident and in-a-hurry you are. Wear the dang mask. Or at least if you don’t, refrain from wearing your work logo on a blindingly florescent yellow T-shirt. Two women are selecting sushi. Then they make their way down several more aisles of the grocery store. We have a mask order in our town. Somehow, they didn’t get the memo….

Jul 16 2020

Who knew we’d have to become experts in mask-wearing? Funny/not funny. No one who wears a mask considers COVID a laughing matter. Given a renewed exponential rise in novel coronavirus cases, we can expect to be in a mask-wearing long-haul. So here are some helpful hints, some from healthcare workers who have their own exponential experience, for wearing a mask: When they go low, we go high. (Quote shamelessly stolen from yet gratefully credited to Michelle Obama) Mask-wearers have been called many names, given many disdainful leers, and even been compared to Nazis. We can’t give anti-maskers the satisfaction of…

Jul 09 2020

Funny how something millions love to wear at Halloween is an incredibly divisive adornment now. And it’s not even made of rubber. Nor does it cover our eyes (necessarily). And it doesn’t suffer from the exorbitant markup cost seen at Halloween City. Wearing facial coverings as a method of slowing the spread of COVID-19 has been meet with much scrutiny and criticism: Masks don’t work. A mask ordinance is a violation of my rights. You’re a sheep if you wear a mask!!! No, wearing facial coverings were not recommended during the initial surge of COVID. This is in part because…

Jul 02 2020

A change of scenery was needed. Limited in what we felt were safe options given the frightening uptick in COVID-19 cases, we decided to head up to see our “cousin” (wink-wink-nudge-nudge) Ralph Lauren at his massive, breathtakingly-beautiful ranch just off the San Juan Skyway. But darn it all, he wasn’t home and being strangers (long, lost cousins?) I doubt we would have been allowed past the carefully maintained main entrance anyway. So we chose instead a lovely VRBO just a few miles down the road, outside of Ridgway, Colorado. It was quiet, with gorgeous views, and we saw absolutely no…

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